Monday, February 16, 2009

Marriage Quote

Marriage is that relation between man and woman in which the independence is equal, the dependence mutual, and the obligation reciprocal. by:Louis K. Anspacher

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Building Love

Whatever definition you may have, Love is indeed a many splendored thing. In love, someone has to take the first move. Setting without no conditions. Love means accepting the person as he is. Loving him/her totally and probably forget the bad side of the past.

A loving relationship starts really from yourself. Show respect with each other. Be sensitive to your partners feeling. Show love and affection towards your partner, this is one thing that your partner will feel that he/she is special to you... working out with problems appropriately will help a lot too. When problem arise, don't quarrel instead have a simple conversation about the issue. You must first listen to the one who's talking then don't interrupt while is still talking, let your partner finish first before asking questions. Also learn how to trust your partner (its one key too, to a long lasting relationship!).

Lack of communication within a relationship causes misunderstanding. You can improve your relationship by spending quality time together that you will enjoy. Why plan for a trip, go to a place where both of you haven't gone before or go to beach rather, shop on the mall or stay at home (sharing thoughts, laugh together or play games.. that would be exciting too!).

How to Make a Relationship Last Longer

Every relationship demands a lot of understanding, communication and adjustments especially when you are getting into a new relationship.

To have a relationship that works, one has to work with it. Some tends to take a relationship for granted and assume that their relationship will last long forever. Wanting a lasting relationship requires acceptance with each other, and that requires a lot of work. If you feel that you and your partner has a big differences between values, talk with it. Since relationship needs a lot of understanding and communication and adjustments as well. Work with it well.

Love or Jealousy?

Jealousy takes away the meaning of true love. One person can love you in many different way. You may not see it but if someone loves you truly then great happiness is yours. Don't put yourself in a situation that you might kill someone to fight your love towards that person because you are only putting yourself down. Confronting them is an easiest way to do but not in a way with anger. You are not feeling the love anymore then. Respect yourself and respect others too. If someone doesn't want you anymore then move on. That doesn't mean that you will not be happy after all this bad things happen to you.

Loving someone and be loved in return is a great feeling. Just put into your mind that loving such person doesn't mean that you want him/her to be with you all the time. That kills the love and the person too. If problems arise don't be too harsh on him, be calm, don't do things that will hurt him it will only lead them to find another better than you.